LOVE is the unconditional bond between two individuals and it is and can only be truly expressed between core family members: parents to children and between siblings of the same parents. The rest is what I called LIKE of a HIGER LEVEL. I don’t care how much you hate your parents, your children or your siblings; you will always have a bad feeling inside of you if something terrible happens to them? Or you will always have those inner feelings to rescue them. That is LOVE. 
Love is an incredibly powerful word. The word love is too powerful to be loosely used to describe our feeling to another person, particularly to the opposite sex. Just like the game we play when we were younger: “girls play sex game to get love and boys play love game to get sex”, a game we played to get our hidden agenda through. Yet we continue to play that sex/love game even we even get older; however, we upgrade it and call it “LOVE for MARRIAGE”
I hear that old talk all the time, “Am in love with my wife or husband”, yet they are on their way to divorce. It makes me wonder and think deeper about the true meaning of the word LOVE and the reality of the fact.
On the other hand, love between two total separate individuals that can let go or divorce, I define that as LIKE, not love. You can never divorce Love or let go.
Marriage on the other hand, is what I called a business arrangements or relationships; what can I get from you and what can you offer me or vice versa? We may in some case hide our agenda and in other cases, we simply define it up front. Generally, it boils down to what can you offer me? Lets enjoy it while it last. Love does not fade. Parents love never fades.
What is that saying? “You marry for Love” If that is the case, why the prenuptial arrangements, if you love that person? What type of Love is that? Love does not have any thing called prenuptials love or conditions attached to it? Love is always unconditional.
We have been programmed to believe that husband and wife have Love between them, it is not. It is a merely a business relationship geared to achieve a common goal called MARRIAGE.
Parent’s love is not based on achieving that common goal with their children. Someone said it well the other day, “business is like war and wining is what counts”. Marriage on the other hand is a business arrangement.
Think about this for a moment, you cannot divorce LOVE. Any one you can divorce, you don’t love and any one you love, you cannot divorce.
I read an article titled “Can A Man Love Two Women” The answer is NO; you can only Love one; your mother and Like the other; your wife, period. It is hard pill to swallow, but it a FACT
I want you to think about this Chinese mentality, a man with his mom and his wife are in a small boat, and the boat capsized into the river. Question? Who will the man save? The Chinese says the mother. Why the mom, but we just said he loves his wife. Now lets think carefully, the rationale is that he can always replace his wife but he cannot and will never be able to replace his mother. That is the definition of LOVE, ladies and gentlemen. Anything you can replace, you cannot LOVE. And anything you love, you cannot replace.
Love will never let you feel this way, but marriage will and can:
Marriage is the triumph of imagination over intelligence.
A woman is incomplete until she is married, then she is finished.
You have two choices in life: You can stay single and be miserable, or get married and wish you were dead.
When a woman steals your husband, there is no better revenge than to let her keep him.
If it weren’t for marriage, men would go through life thinking they had no faults at all.
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